Archive for May, 2009

Advice on Getting Married: No officiant? no problem

3367207926_7ddb207591Getting married in Pennsylvania? Some folks already have! But if the big event is still ahead of you, you may find an article in the Philadelphia Enquirer helpful. Among the items covered were the following.  -gw 

Timing is everything
In parts of Asia, couples consult the calendar for a fortuitous wedding date. In Pennsylvania, be mindful of the three-day waiting period between when you apply and when you can actually marry. That’s three business days. And the license is valid for only 60 days, so don’t apply too soon.

Cash up front
Like towing companies, county offices accept cash or money order only. License fees range from $45 to $90 in Chester, Bucks, Delaware, Montgomery, and Philadelphia Counties.

Don’t go alone
Both parties must be present to apply for the marriage license. Widows or widowers, bring a certified copy of the death certificate; divorcees must show a certified divorce decree.

No officiant?
No problem. Any couple may marry themselves in front of two witnesses – without an officiant. Ask for a self-uniting license. Members of Baha’i and Quaker communities also use self-uniting licenses.

http://www.philly.com/inquirer/columnists/dianna_marder/20090318_Advice_on_getting_a_license.html

Photo: “Philadelphia wedding,” Uploaded on March 18, 2009 by afagen onflickr, licensed under Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 2.0 Generic

On Tweet Chuckles: Baha’i religion funding feminist groups

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got-to-be-jokingI got a chuckle out of this tweet. Some statements are so ridiculous they seem like intended humor. -gw

Now let’s see Obama kill the “Faith-Based Federal Funding”initiative. He won’t do that because feminist groups use Baha’i religion for funds.

On Twitter Baha’i Bios: A sampling

 

Like everything else about Twitter, biographical information provided is usually short and sweet. Here is a sampling of bios of Baha’is on Twitter. -gw

  • Name Ken
  • Location Denver
  • Web http://myspace.co…
  • Bio Baha’i and former Marine Vietnam Vet
  • Name Nima
  • Location Charlotte, North Carolina
  • Web http://www.linked…
  • Bio I’m a first year law student, Baha’i, and Tarheel.
  • Name Christopher
  • Location planet earth
  • Bio i’m a music maker::i live on the east coast::i’m a baha’i
  • Name Bill
  • Location Greater Hutchinson,Usa
  • Bio I am active retiree. I am a member of Amnesty Intl and active in the Bahai Faith.
  • Name Katharine
  • Location Washington, DC
  • Web http://www.justka…
  • Bio just a girl, writes songs, loves to sing jazz and everything, Baha’i, biology geek, interested in public health and international development
  • Name Jessica
  • Location Beloit, WI, USA
  • Bio Follower of the Light – Baha’i. Holistic Health Counseling student just starting to see clients:D
  • Name ChauvinOn
  • Location Houston, Texas
  • Web http://barra1308….
  • Bio I am a Scotsman living in the US. I am married to Juliet, and we are both members of the Bahai Faith. I am also a history enthusiast – see my current blog
  • Name Barney
  • Location Welwyn, Herts. UK
  • Web http://www.leithj…
  • Bio Baha’i, grandfather, interested in writing, music, spirituality, human rights
  • Name squarie
  • Bio Domestic Goddess, Baha’i, Technical Support for PACS, Biomedical Engineer, Ruhi Tutor, Sunday School Teacher, Mom, Wife Extraordinare!
  • Name Jill
  • Location Greensboro North Carolina
  • Web http://www.myspac…
  • Bio Baha’i, professional body piercer, artist, welding student, work in a sculpture studio, wife and stepmother of 3
  • Name Kelly
  • Location Texas
  • Bio Baha’i, student of the world, Star Wars geek, lover of yoga
  • Name Mick
  • Location St. Ignace, MI
  • Web http://www.misfit…
  • Bio Baha’i, world citizen, opiner, biker, husband, America 
    • Name Bui
    • Location Aberdeen
    • Web http://www.BuiTyr…
    • Bio Communication professional, b2b, pr, corp comm, media, copywriter, musician, world citizen, Baha’i

    What I get out of looking at all these is that Baha’is appear to be a very diverse group, including young and old, professional body piercers to Marine Vets. Baha’u'llah … and Twitter… bring together all these souls. -gw

    On a God of Wonders: Praying for God’s Will

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     When I stumble in the darkness
    I will call your name by night

    For me, today would have been a day to stumble, to give in to my battle against what, at times, is an excruciatingly painful illness.

    When I happened to play “God of Wonders” by accident on my iPod, I realized I had not yet prayed today.

    As such, my illness was causing me to stumble, but in that darkness, the song reminded me to call upon God in prayer.

    So I prayed not for God to end my physical suffering; rather, I prayed for God’s will.

    After all, He is the All-Knowing and Most-Merciful.

    Today was a reminder that — no matter how painful — suffering can clear the debris and clutter of daily life.

    http://dayspringsofglory.blogspot.com/2009/05/god-of-wonders-reminder-to-pray-daily.html

    From Glenn’s fine blog Dayspring of Glory a moving and personal reflection and reminder. -gw

    Photo: “Third Day at the Puyallup Fair,” uploaded on August 20, 2007 by MSHennessy on flickr, licensed under Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 2.0 Generic

    On an Early Photo of Abdu’l-Baha: I have not seen this one before

    I received this item today from an anonymous friend, who wrote: “I have not seen this photo before… it comes from N.Y. Public Library Digital Gallery.” -gw

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    Image ID: 494066

    Image Title:  Abul-Baha-Abbas [from 'The New York Times,' Sunday, September 24, 1911].
    Published Date: 1911
    Source: Print Collection portrait file. / A / Abul-Baha-Abbas
    Location: Stephen A. Schwarzman Building / Print Collection, Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs
    Digital ID: 494066
    Record ID: 337663

    http://tiny.cc/umDQ7

    Permission:  “You may download low-resolution images directly from the web site for personal, research, non-profit or study purposes for free. This includes classroom use, student projects, and any open access web site.”

    http://www.nypl.org/permissions/faq.html#5

    On the Preposterous Claims of Mason Remey: A cautionary tale

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    My wife gazes at a painting of Abdu’l-Baha, the Center of the Covenant, in the Haifa Pilgrim House, in a photo taken during our recent Baha’i pilgrimage. http://www.flickr.com/photos/85934826@N00/3553795328/

    Here are recent posts on Mason Remey, whose name still occasionally pops up in coverage about the Baha’i Faith, that are drawn from two incredibly well-researched personal blogs devoted to study of the Baha’i Covenant. -gw

    Mason Remey and his followers made — and still make today –”violent attacks on the Hands, their decisions, and their right to carry on the beloved Guardian’s Crusade.” The folly of their position is obvious to everyone but themselves: They condemn the acts and decisions in which Mason Remey had himself participated. 

    Resting on no Foundations Whatever: The Preposterous Claims of Charles Mason Remey

    That reasonably intelligent men and women should be unable—after the passage of almost half a century—to free themselves from the relentless undertow of folly and ambition that has drowned every hope and scheme they ever cherished is a cautionary tale indeed. The fate of those who followed Charles Mason Remey is a case study in the nature and paralyzing effect of the virus of Covenant-breaking.

    http://covenantstudy.org/additional-documents/mason-remey-and-those-who-followed-him/

    http://covenantstudy.org/questions/mason-remey/

    On A Persian Venice Perhaps: Art for inspiration at Baha’i devotions

    3552883741_474c81bb69A Persian Venice perhaps. Two lovers for sure.

    3553695366_bdfb6d69a7Talked with Markal today. Couldn’t come to devotions tonight, because the blues band he is in is doing some recording. Talked to Rocky, who is recovering from dialysis today. Glad to hear that Karen goes over to his home on on Thursdays to study with him. He said he’d try to come to devotions next Thursday.

    3552885903_33995b1ebfBonita, Walter and I held down the fort tonight. Bonita just barely though, because again she overdid it in the garden preparing the soil for beans and planting corn. She viewed Walter’s paintings tonight from a reclining position. She took in the prayers lying down, too. -gw

    Paintings, All Rights Reserved. Photo, Creative Commons licensed.

    On a Sign of the Maturity of Mankind: When no one wants to bear the burden of kingship

    It is perhaps not surprising that an  enthusiast for Open Space Technology, or OST, should eagerly paraphrase Baha’u'llah. -gw

    imgdivIn the Baha’i faith, the founder said that the sign of the maturity of mankind was when no one wanted to bear the burden of kingship. When we realize that the universe is self-organizing is perhaps the only point where a leader can truly be a leader. Just as Jesus taught that those who would be first among us would serve everyone else, and as he sacrificed his life to promote that message, maybe that’s the real lesson of being a good leader – learning to follow spirit.

    http://shinsato.com/blog/2009/05/leadership-and-followership/

    On Eric Harper, a Musical Chameleon, Comes to the PacNW: I’m not going to be the guy who only has one style

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    Eric Harper is in our area performing house concerts. He is phenomenal, I hear. Plays flamenco rock and other styles. -gw

    May 21 7:00P Home of Gity & Ramin Najafi Tigard, Oregon
    May 23 7:30P Home of David & Jilla Simmons Seattle, Washington
    May 24 7:00P Home of Tom and Judy Rohm Renton, Washington
    May 25 6:00P Home of Deborah and Jesus Salas Vashon, Washington
    May 28 7:30P Smith + Burrard Vancouver, British Columbia
    May 29 7:00P Payam Sazegar’s house Vancouver, British Columbia
    May 30 8:00P Zinnia & Kristian Harper’s Home Victoria, British Columbia
    May 31 7:00P Rahbar Home Victoria, British Columbia
    Jun 5 7:00P Payam & Erin’s Home Nanaimo, British Columbia

    About Eric Harper
    Ok, so here’s the deal: I’m a musician. Simple. But I suppose what makes me complex is that I’m a chameleon. My job; to create any style of music when asked. I’ve created Bossa Nova, Chinese Pop, Afro-Pop, Fado, Morno, Salsa, Rock, Flamenco, Jazz, and so on. I’m not going to be the guy who only has one style. So all those former notions of musicians that you loved so dearly back in the 70s, 80s, 90s and what not, that only had one style, well, that’s just not me. What I do promise you though, is to always bring you integrity, quality and a high standard of music as best as I know how. I hope you enjoy my process as much as I will enjoy getting to know you.

    http://www.myspace.com/ericharpermusic

    http://www.amityrecords.com/eric-harper-composer.html

    On Mummy Power: I work from home (WAHM), I’m a blogger, a breastfeeding counsellor, yoga instructor & a volunteer Baha’i children class teacher

    Where Moms Unite

    I’m mummy to a super adorable & cheeky 3-year-old Tristan & 4-month old Trevor. I Work from home (WAHM), I’m a blogger, a Breastfeeding Counsellor, Yoga Instructor & a volunteer Baha’i Children Class Teacher

    http://mummyhugsshop.blogspot.com/2009/05/you-can-find-mummyhugs-here.html

    Mummys are uniting the world a baby at a time. -gw

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